Gabriel Karlo Tio turns 7

Seven years ago at 3:12 pm, in a fully occupied delivery room of Chong Hua Hospital, Gabriel Karlo Francisco Tio was born.

Jolted from his familiar warm cocoon, the little boy named after the Messenger Angel Gabriel, announced his arrival in the loudest possible way he could muster. Doctors and nurses present commented how strong his lungs and limbs were. That first encounter with this little boy already showed some indications of how he was to behave in the coming days, months, and years.

Karlo is a very intense young boy. He is very loving, thoughtful, helpful and sweet. Whenever he is home, he would call, text or send me “I love you” messages. He is quick to volunteer to help in all and every chore we do at home. From sweeping the floor, to watering the plants, chopping the vegetables and even mending clothes. A stickler for policies, he seemed to live up to his name--Gabriel as he is quick to announce whenever his brother commits some misdeed or fails to close the door, cap the toothpaste or switch off the light. He is also a deep thinker often commenting in the most unexpected way on certain issues or topics which are often way beyond his years.

And when he is angry or frustrated, his emotions could pour out like an avalanche that would sweep anything along its path. He just could not be distracted with toys, cartoon shows or even sweet talk whenever he starts with his angry fits and crying spells.

Years ago, one of his teachers who did not know him well enough yet, tried to appease him during one of these bouts by talking him out of it. Much to her surprise and discomfort, Karlo let off one of his quick punches. Such appeasing gestures does nothing to improve his demeanor at that time, however, we learned that the better way is just to let him be and allow him to let off steam while making sure that he is safe. Kids, like adults, needs space and time outs, and yes, lots of respect too.

That was years ago, now, Karlo at 7 has gotten his temper better reigned. After allowing him quiet time to be alone by himself and work out his anger or frustrations, he would approach us with his usual happy self again like nothing happened. When asked what happened or why he was so upset, he is ready to give his reasons. One time, he reflected saying, “I tried very hard but I just can’t control myself”. This is referring to his ability to reign in his temper. But then, he challenged himself by stating “I am trying hard and I will try again next time.”

To me, that speaks volumes on the maturity he has gained over the years. There are so many things to say about this precocious little boy who has truly enriched our lives in so many ways. But to me, his love for the Lord and his relation with GOD are the ones that stand out the most.

One time, when he was to go with his dad and brother for a boy’s night out, leaving me all alone in the house, I muttered “Please don’t leave me, I’m scared”. Of which Karlo quickly quipped “Don’t be afraid mom, you are not alone, GOD is with you!”

Gabriel Karlo Tio, you are GOD-sent to your family and friends! We wish you a very HAPPY BIRTHDAY our GOD’s little messenger : ) We love you so much!!!